my forever wishlist

i hope your toenails are clean and neatly trimmed.i hope you have read the news today. and that you woke up on the right side of the bed, not on the left, because that's where i'd probably be each waking day. i hope you despise coke as much as i do. i hope you love coffee and milk, by the way, i hate milk. i hope you have a nice smile and eyes to die for, dark brown eyes. please wear glasses, not contacts, it adds to your wisdom.id love to see you in black leather shoes. tell me how much you like jalapeno, paprika and wasabe.tell me you loathe cats and you own a retriever. tell me that i gain a pound everytime i play solitaire. i have a strange feeling that you are a surgeon.oh wait, you are a lawyer or maybe a writer.im lookingforward to having a home by the water.

i hope you can cry,it says a lot. i know you'll always surprise me with orange and yellow gerberas. you'll love the names, niccolo andrez and carmine ysobelle, of course they are our children.you're going to tell me i am inlove with you. pajero, you'll be driving this to work. you love okra. you adore my feet, especially when my toenails are copper red. you cannot sleep until i fall asleep in your arms. pride and prejudice, familiar? how about celine and jessie? i'll always ask you to sing our song. whenever i'll sing, you'll pick up your guitar.i hope you know how to pray, does not matter who you pray to, as long as you have faith.thanks for the poem you wrote for me. i hope your mom is not anabel rama or imee marcos.you like green. you are everyone's brother. i hope you're here, healthy and happy as ever. its 3am and i hope you are sleeping, i would not want our kids to havea pairof insomniac as parents. i hope your last name does not begin with anA, it might torment the children.

hopefully, you know how to figure skate.and that you love chocolate cakes and blueberry muffins.i hope my dad loves you as much as your mom will love me too.i hope you'll write me letters, extra kilig. iam hoping you know how to ride a bicycle and you know who john grisham and dr.sheaperd is.

lastly, i wish i know you, or maybe atleast your name. I wish you truly exist

is that all you are really after? after all?

disclaimer: This is an article i read few minutes ago...hurrr..written by a guy.And as the title reads, its about HIS say regarding how physical attraction seemed to be a very important thing between guy & girl relationship. I still am not gonna write my comment right now..but i know how you guys can imagine my reaction while reading it..read on!

* Article by Rich Santos, Marie Claire, on Mon Jan 12, 2009 8:04pm PST


I may sound really shallow, but I don't think I can date someone who I don't find physically attractive.

I wish I could deny my instincts, but my instincts tell me that I won't be happy unless someone is smart, fun, sweet AND good-looking.

Guys are often stimulated by visual cues. They will gravitate and hit on the girls they find physically attractive when they are out.

But I hope that most guys are not judging books by the cover. In other words, I hope what most guys are looking for is a book with a pretty cover and a great story inside. A pretty cover alone can only go so far.

So, is it less shallow to say that guys are attracted to a girl at FIRST by how she looks, but then there must be more to formulate a deeper relationship? I've struggled for a long time: why can't I just be attracted to the great girl that isn't pretty on the outside in my eyes? Or, why do I only go for these girls that I find pretty on the outside before I know about what's on the inside?

When I meet an amazing girl personality-wise that is not physically attractive to me, she just becomes a really good friend, and once they are a friend it never changes.

Here is what I notice in terms of appearance, in order, in a girl when I'm out:

1. Figure/frame - I wish this wasn't so, but it is. I tried to tell my friend Margaret that I noticed eyes before anything else. But she was quick to point out that I won't approach a girl who is not petite and is not shorter than me. I'm average height and my first few girlfriends I ever had were all petite. So I guess I've just developed attraction to that type of figure.

2. Eyes - The most attractive communicate a lot in general, but they also say that there are hidden things that-- if I'm lucky to get close to that person--I will discover. Not all eyes have that little glimmer that sets me on fire, but when I see that glimmer it's an amazing experience.
Blondie Glow
3. Hair - You know that when hair moves a certain way, it moves me. So, pretty hairstyle, color, and texture are attractive.

4. Smile - Smiling a lot is key. Almost all smiles I've seen in my experience are pretty.

5. Style - When a girl has exceptional, classy or edgy style, it is really attractive, and it almost always enhances her natural appearance.

When I see a girl that meets all of those characteristics, she has a slight glow: she stands out in a crowded room. I see girls like this about once every three months or so.

I find it hard to imagine dating anyone that I wouldn''t want to see sitting across from me at a dinner table every day, that wouldn''t brighten the room every day when she walked in, and that didn''t have that glow.

What I do need to work on, perhaps, is being more forgiven. Should I open my mind so that I'm not so picky-does she really need to "glow"? Or is it impossible to just change my instincts and mental makeup?

Maybe I'm just immature. Older people tell me that looks disappear eventually, but personality is what will keep me happy in a serious relationship as time goes on. So, is it limiting to demand both amazing looks and personality in a soul mate?

Have you ever met someone that wasn't attractive at first, but then became more physically attractive because of a wonderful personality? Do you agree that the first step in attraction is physical and that it's really hard to just change what you've developed in your mind as "physical attractiveness" in the opposite sex?

a filipino girl lyza abueg garcellano

i am filipino, born, raised and living in the philippines

i am not backward, barbaric or warlike

my house is not open to all

i dont readily open my door to strangers

i am not always hospitable

i am kind and respectful and i expect the same treatment from others.

i am not rich.

i work hard to earn a living. it is my right to be paid my dues.

doing domestic chores,manual lador and working as a babysitter in a foreign land aren't the only thingsi am cut out to do.

whenever/if ever i save money i like to travel, to see the world and learn about new cultures.

i didnt apply for and get my visa to the US with the intention of going there to land me an american citizenship

i have no intention of being an illegal alien in the US

i like to travel, that's it

i dont wash my clothes by the river

neither do i live in a tree

i am not catholic.iam not protestant.born again. opus dei. el shaddai or muslim

i do not belong to an organized religion

i frimly believe in religious freedom and tolerance. i am not evil

i do not eat dogs.

in fact i do not eat meat.i dont have a tastefor killing

i am not adept at handling a balisong or inclined to dance the tinikling and i dont have a penchant for singing.

i dont know everything but i am not ignorant,naive or uninformed. i read books. i study. i analyze issues.

i am not pliant, meek or docile.

finally, my country may be economically poor but i dontlike being called provincial, or referred to as an exotic being fromthe islands and a third world citizen.

and, i suppose, neither do you.